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At Select Matchmaking, we believe meaningful relationships begin with awareness. After years of working with thousands of singles and couples, we’ve learned that lasting relationships aren’t built on luck alone. They’re built through greater self-awareness, intentional choices, and a willingness to understand ourselves as deeply as we hope to understand others.  Our growing collection of audio programs and reflection guides has been thoughtfully created to help you do exactly that.

The quality of our relationships begins with the quality of our awareness.

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Why Dating Feels Off — Even When You’re…

You may be doing everything “right” and still find yourself wondering why dating feels confusing, frustrating, or harder than it should. This complimentary audio…

Price: FREE

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Awareness & Alignment- Breaking unconscious dating patterns & creating healthier relationships

Understanding the patterns shaping your dating life. A guided audio series designed to help you better understand the unconscious patterns, beliefs, and emotional dynamics influencing your dating experience — so you can approach relationships with greater clarity, awareness, and alignment.

Price: $69.99

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The Modern Dating Guide

A practical guided audio series for approaching modern dating with greater confidence, clarity, and intention. Learn how to show up authentically, recognize genuine interest, communicate with ease, navigate the early stages of connection, and stay grounded without getting caught up in overthinking.

Price: $69.99

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From Dating to Relationships

Finding someone you connect with is one thing. Building a healthy, lasting relationship is another. This guided audio series explores what happens after dating—from creating a strong foundation and building trust to communicating openly, navigating differences, maintaining connection, and growing together. Designed to help you move from simply being in a relationship to intentionally creating one that feels healthy, fulfilling, and built to last.

Price: $69.99

What Our Clients Say About Us

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Jeff K

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality, Responsiveness, Value. I have nothing but great things to say about the ladies at Select Matchmaking. They listen, are attentive & quick to respond; but most importantly connect you with potential matches who could truly be that one 'match' that counts! High recommend them.

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Michael J Allan

Client Review

Select Matchmaking staff are professional, thorough and provide excellent details about a potential partner. Very positive and honest. Great follow up system. I would highly recommend them!

Analucia Beltran

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality

David Minor

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality, Responsiveness, Value
Just a brief note of appreciation and praise for the quality, marurity and judgement provided by Laila and the entire Select Matchmaking team. The matches I met were of very high quality as individuals and provided nothing but great dating experiences.

Gina Capistrano

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality
Laila and her team are professionals who strives to make online dating easy, fun and safe to explore and search for someone to share our lives with. Select matchmaking puts the focus on deep levels of matchmaking.

Paul Marchildon

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism
Laila takes great care to really get to know you and what you are looking for in life. She does that with all of her clients and thats what alllows her to make such curated matches. I'm really enjoying the experience so far.

Shannon Yeh

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality, Responsiveness
It's great to have Laila and her team to pre screen members and member's informations are all verified. Such a relief to know my matchs are REAL... No lies about their age, job, marital status!! I've met some great people and feeling positive to find the one!!

TheCondo VIP

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism, Quality, Responsiveness
It is so refreshing to have joined with Select. The quality of service and matches have been outstanding and I really love working with this team! This beats other services that base matches purely on pictures and a few random questions. If you are ready to make that match, don’t hesitate

Jeff Smith

Client Review

Positive: Professionalism
Laila and Chanell were both extremely professional and passionate about finding the right person for you!